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The
Oisin HendriX
Official Guide To Non Predatory Verbal And Physical Behaviour For Those Hoping To Engage In Romantic Or Social Communication

Rules for appropriate communication from the masculine
1 - Presence

Please ensure that your physical presence is non threatening or overtly belligerent

Maintaining a conversational tone in public places is preferred - shouting and using furniture to emphasize points with a bang is unnecessarily aggressive in most public spaces


2 - Observation

It is not appropriate to stare at people you do not plan to engage with conversationally, or who have already refused a conversation with you 2 - interaction

Please ensure that all physical contact is consensual and invitation is vocally communicated and expressed before engaging


3 - Engagement

When approaching a stranger to engage in conversation ensure that your first interaction is directed towards discovering if this person is interested in a conversation.

4 - Refusal

If the request for conversation is refused politely walk away and do not engage past a well mannered goodbye

If the request is accepted please do not take this as a sign of sexual acceptance

Do not assume that any more then a conversation has been initiated

Do not expect to be able to receive contact details or personal information Do not be too intense

Crowding, or overwhelming a person with your physical presence may not be obvious to you at first; pay attention to visual cues that may suggest the person you are talking to is afraid

Do not gesture to or take out your penis in public places, or pleasure yourself to people who are not engaged in a consensual sexual situation with you in public or otherwise

Do not growl at people directly

Do not engage in chasing people who are trying to leave a conversation with you at any pace walking or running

Do not use recording devices to capture footage of vulnerable people to pleasure yourself to later

Don’t misrepresent your intentions in order to get contact details or personal information

Do not intentionally smell people you do not know.

Do not invade the personal space of people you do not know without first ensuring that they are accepting of your presence.

If a conversation is refused by the person you are hoping to engage with do not become violent or rude.

Do not attempt to physically handle the person in question.

When approaching people at night immediately present yourself in conversation and do not attempt to follow them silently.

If your conversation is refused do not attempt to follow.

When attempting to compliment a stranger refrain from sexual or aggressive behaviour; drawing attention to genitalia, breasts penis or vaginal area is entirely inappropriate

Physically restraining someone’s limbs while they are trying to escape your presence is unquestionably inappropriate

The idea of rape should be as unquestionably vile in your mind as cannibalism Rape is not an act of willing aggresssion; rape is an act of violent ignorance.

The ability to know when you are desired is vital.

Attempting to seduce someone who is not attracted to you is the first sign of a rapacious mentality.

Do not attempt to seduce people who are clearly unattracted  to you.

Seduction is not predatory.

Rape is not sexual.

Your weakness is not an excuse to project your power onto vulnerable people.

If you feel the need to be rude or aggressive you should have already left a conversation.

If you are offended, leave.

And learn to recognise the feeling of being offended before it makes you attack someone verbally or physically.


Important Mindfulness Points

1 - Presence and boundaries

2 - Communication and implication

3 - Attraction and rejection

4 - Confidence and arrogance

5 - Perspectives and beliefs

6 - Intention and execution

7 - Language and consent

8 - Pleasure and pain

9 - Compassion and service

10 - Creativity and vulnerability

11 - People vs personalities

12 - The future not the past


Interesting Conversation Points

1 Yourself and your existence

2 Your needs and abilities

3 Immediate Physical Objects

4 Likes and Dislikes

5 Perspectives and beliefs

6 Plans and ideas

7 Actions and Institutions

8 Emotions

9 Ambitions and Achievements

10 Imagination

11 Feelings and Ideas evoked by the presence of the other person

12 Ways for humanity to evolve.

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